There is so much to blog about, including the big Fishing for Tucker tournament. Despite the rain, it was a huge success!! 96 boats entered the tournament, there were bands playing all afternoon, jambalaya and cokes being sold, the raffle tickets, a bake sale, face painting, and tons of people and donations!!
My cousin and uncle came in from Kentucky, and Tucker was so excited that “Jon Micah” was there with him, he went right to bossing him around, as if no time had passed since he last saw him. Molli loves him, too, but she calls him “Michael Jackson”….still haven’t figured that one out, haha. This year they added a Kids Fishing Derby, and lots of kids came out to fish in the Cabela’s pond. The kids loved it, and some of the fish they caught were huge.
You can friend “Fishing for Tucker” on facebook or go to fishingfortucker.com to learn more about the event. It is amazing that our family and the local community put this on to help us pay for Tucker’s medical and therapy expenses.
The tournament was Saturday, and then we left for Houston on Monday. If anyone is thinking: that was a horrible idea, well you are right! I don’t know why I didn’t foresee the scheduling as an issue. We schedule the appointments so far in advance that I just take whatever date they give me, then by the time I knew when the tournament was, it would have been very hard to move the appointments for two drs. Anyways….Mom, Tucker, and I were exhausted before we even began the trip.
So we left Monday afternoon, and of course as soon as we’re on the road Tucker was asking to see Morgan and Grace. We met them at Taco Bell for dinner in LC, they were so impressed to watch him eat applesauce by mouth! That was the first time that he ate for us that wasn’t at home or at school. He did great, even with the distractions all around him. He ended up eating very well for the whole trip-pudding and yogurt when we were away from the hotel room, and then sweet potatoes and beans when we were in the hotel room because we needed the microwave. He is doing great with the eating!
I scheduled the appointments very early in the day to reduce wait time (we usually wait on the drs at least 2 hours!), so we didn’t spend the night in LC. We said good-bye and headed on to Houston. I hadn’t made hotel reservations, as I knew there was a chance we’d give up and not be able to make the whole drive. So while I drove, mom was trying to make reservations on my IPhone, which was almost dead and therefore stuck to the very short charging cord. Well, my cup full of ice and water was open, and the phone fell into it! So there went my phone, luckily mom made the reservations first, we just weren’t sure how to find the hotel after that…… but anyways, we’d been there so many times that we found it very easily.
Tucker was of course thrilled to be at the hotel, so we got ready for bed and were asleep by 1130. The next morning we were up by 6 and we headed to see Dr. K at 745. The wait was very short (yay!) as we had an 830am appointment. We found out last week that Dr. K is expecting a baby, so we had to tell her congrats, of course. She looked so excited when she came in to see us, I thought she was excited because we told her congrats…..it turned out she had some pretty great news for us.
Now, at first this doesn’t sound good. We (as in Tucker’s parents, grandparents, caregivers, teachers, etc.) have known for a long time that Tucker’s sleep and his brain activity are not quite right. We have never actually seen him have a seizure, I don’t know anything about seizure meds or dealing with seizures…but we knew that proving that he had seizures would make sense. In 2008, Tucker’s lung dr in BR ordered a sleep study, and the sleep study showed abnormal brain activity. Because he is not a neurologist, he referred us to the BR neurologist, who ordered a 15 minute EEG, and then a 23 hour EEG. Both of these came back normal. Tucker continued to have abnormal sleep studies, but the neurologist said the EEG was normal, so that was the final word, not the sleep study.
Fast forward to 2011. Dr. K saw the sleep study results, and she ordered a 23 hour EEG in Houston. We went for this test in December, I posted about it a while ago. It takes 4 weeks to get results. So we timed it perfectly to go back to see Dr. K, although that was not on purpose.
Dr. K said that Tucker’s EEG was abnormal. He did not have any seizures for the 23 hours; however, he has epileptic activity, or spikes, or charges. The way she explained it to think of Tucker’s brain as a campfire that has been put out. You shouldn’t really have any sparks. For a regular person, every once in a while there will be a spark, and it shoots out and dies off. For Tucker, the sparks are often, and at night they are continuous. And with that, there is a risk that one or more of the sparks will fly off and start a forest fire. Luckily, as far as we know, that hasn’t happened. So then why did she seem so happy to be telling me this?? Because this type of brain activity is associated with language delay and autistic characteristics, and it has been treatable in other kids with a seizure med Lamictal. When the Lamictal works to control the brain waves, it also improves the language and behavior issues….wow!! This could be huge for Tucker.
So then I asked about his sleep-of course this brain activity makes him get poor sleep, correct? She explained that yes, it affects his sleep, so if the Lamictal works, he will get more productive sleep. This would literally change our lives. Tucker sleeps a lot…and on the weekends sometimes takes two naps. We have an almost 6 year old kid, but we schedule our lives like parents of a baby, never wanting to interrupt Tucker’s nap time or possible naps, or really even his bedtime because of the fear of him losing sleep. If we have an afternoon event scheduled, like a birthday party, I make sure Tucker sleeps late and takes a morning nap that day. Not exactly normal, but we are used to it. For Tucker to actually get 8-10 hours of sleep at night, and have that be all he needs?? I’m not sure Chris and I would know what to do with him, hahaha.
We will start the Lamictal next weekend at a small dose, then increase the does little by little for 8 weeks. Then he will repeat the 23 hour EEG to see if the meds are working. We will follow up with Dr K in June, since she is due in August. So that’s good for us, as August is a bad time for both Chris and me to take time off of work. As we were leaving, once again I showed my lack of scheduling abilities, by agreeing to an EEG date and return appointment that was right in the middle of the week when Matthew and Jon Michael are coming from Kentucky to visit. Oh yes, I’m sure Tucker would love to be in Houston while the boys are in Gonzales….. So mom pointed that out, and I went back and changed the appointments.
We got to visit with Missy (Samuel and Lauren’s mom) for a bit, as she now works in the clinic. I can’t say how great it is to see her, we enjoyed chatting with her for a bit, even though Tucker was bossing us “go to da hotel!” “get out!” the whole time. Tucker learned a huge skill on the Monday before the appointments, he learned to say NO, or “mo!” as he says it. And he is NOT afraid to use it! He told me no about 50 times a day on that trip, and I have only heard him tell Chris “mo!” once so far. After the appointment, we grabbed lunch at the hospital cafeteria, then we went to the hotel and took a 3 hour nap….seriously needed that!
That night we went to Olive Garden and Tucker licked all of the salad and breadsticks, and his own pepperoni pizza. He also demanded to see “Baby Kin” all through dinner, as if I had her hidden somewhere. I told him “we are in Texas, Kinley is in Louisiana”; he just stared at me.
We went back to the hotel, all had baths, and still went to bed early. The next morning we packed up and headed to see Dr. P at 815. We barely waited to see her, the early appointments are definitely a good idea. She came in with okay news. Tucker’s Feratin level is pretty low, this is a level that leads to Restless Leg Syndrome which Tucker has while asleep. She is going to discuss this with the sleep dr and hopefully treat it. So Tucker’s sleep should be improving soon. Tucker’s IgG levels are low, these are levels that show immunity. Last time they were checked (6 months before), his levels were normal, now they are on the lower end of normal. Dr. P said that as long as he isn’t sick often, she isn’t too worried about the numbers right now. Well, he isn’t sick that often, so we aren’t worried either. Dr. P had also checked Tucker’s blood 6 months earlier to see if his vaccines were effective. One of the vaccines that babies get, Prevnar, helps to fight against bacterial infections. Well Tucker had no immunity to that, because his vaccine did not work. So her suggestion was to give him the vaccine again, and then re-test his blood in 6 weeks to see if his body had the immune response for it. She asked us how Tucker has been doing in the last 6 months, and we said great. He had a few minor ear infections since his tubes fell out, but nothing big. I think he only missed one half-day of school so far due to illness, and that was a sinus infection. She asked us “anything else?” I said “well he is potty trained now.” Dr. P said that made her day! So mom mentioned that he eats by mouth. Dr. P and the social worker were obviously very impressed, so they had to hear all about ABA and how Tucker has changed over the past 6 months. Then the nurse came in and gave Tucker the vaccine, he was such a big kid about it. He was just happy about the band aid, he loves Band Aids! Santa Claus brought him some band aids in his stocking, they were all used up on fake “bo bos” by New Years.
We left the doctor’s office and headed home. We didn’t stop in LC as Aunt Kim was home sick and the girls were at school. We made pretty good time and got home before Chris came home from work. We did stop at Whole Foods on the way home, as Tucker was out of his Soy yogurt and pudding. I bought $50 worth…seriously…that way I don’t have to go back for a long time….and knowing that my son was going to eat every single bite made me not even care about the price. That evening was pretty low-key, as we were all very tired.
The next morning, I got up and got ready work. Chris started getting Tucker ready for school (Chris was off for two days), and he realized Tucker was very warm. Then Tucker really couldn’t put any weight on his leg that he got the shot in. His temperature was 101, and he never runs fever. Even when he has strep throat or an ear infection, his temperature doesn’t go up. So Tucker stayed home with Chris, and they both slept a lot. He still had ABA therapy with Amy in the afternoon, and he did great with that. On Friday morning, I got up and got ready for work, and Chris started getting Tucker’s medicine ready. I went in to wake Tucker up, and he yelled “light off! Blanket on!” I told him no, he had to go to school. He said “Mo! Stay home wit Daddy!” Well, excuse me! Luckily for him, that was an option, hahaha. We did take his temperature and make him try to walk a little, and he did not look good. Chris realized that we had been giving Tucker the Ibuprofen and Tylenol dosage for a 4 year old, and Tucker really needed an extra 2.5 ml to keep up with his weight. So once he figured that out, Tucker’s fever and pain were much better controlled. I did not realize that he had gotten big enough to increase the dose, good thing that Chris checks those kinds of things!
So I went to work again, leaving them home together. That day was a little better and more active, so by Saturday Tucker was bored.
By Sunday, Tucker had a cold and a scary sounding hacking cough. Chris went to the camp with his dad, and I pushed cold meds and pain meds all day. That afternoon Chris got home and took Tucker to the after hours doctor. They came home with meds for an ear infection and cough meds. I thought that maybe the ear infection and cough were related?? But unfortunately after 4 days of antibiotics, the cough is still very much there. It’s awful :( Tucker has coughing fits as long as he’s awake. He doesn’t have a fever or anything else, though, so he spent most of the week at school. He was especially excited on Tuesday when he got to bring his “vawentines” to school for his friends. On Thursday morning, the cough seemed to be much worse, and he asked to “stay home wit mama”. I called the pediatrician, and she suggested a different cough medicine. Because he had no other symptoms, she suggested I give him the new meds and watch him at home until Monday. So on Thursday Tucker watched about 8 straight hours of Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, and didn’t move around, but the only time he really had coughing relief was during his nap. We started the Delsym, along with Mucinex and the regular cold meds Thursday evening, and Tucker didn’t cough from 630pm up until 2am. Oh, and Chris lathered up Tucker’s chest with Vick’s vaporub about 5 times, and every time he woke up coughing, Chris woke up to put more on. At 2am I gave Tucker more night time cold meds, which put him back to sleep, so no more coughing until this morning.
I guess we’ll see how the weekend goes, I am hoping he has some relief soon. He is certainly a very good patient, no complaining or whining. If I was coughing like that, I would have had several meltdowns by now. Even with the hurt leg last week, he just hobbled around, no whining from him. He is such a sweet boy, thanks for checking in on us.
Friday, February 17, 2012
Thursday, February 2, 2012
General Update
Tucker has been doing so well with eating lately that we are increasing his volume. Instead of eating just 2 ounces per meal, we moved up to 2.5 ounces per meal last week, then 3 ounces per meal this week, etc., until we get to 4 ounces per meal at Jennifer’s next visit. She will then introduce new foods, so he will start eating 2 ounces of 2 different foods at each meal. He is doing very well with the additional volume so far….except that I apparently don’t know the difference between 1 and 2! I like to prepare a big batch of food for Tucker at once, then measure it all out into his portions and freeze them. Well, I thought I had it all measured out into 2.5 ounce portions for the week, then this morning I realized he has 6 bowls of 1.5 ounces of sweet potatoes….This was easy to fix as I have a bunch of 1 ounce frozen sweet potato ice cubes, so I just added one ice cube to each bowl. I need to turn my brain on when I am packing up food next week!
As Tucker eats more, we obviously run out of food sooner. This means that I am blending and freezing at least one of his five foods every night. Plus I still blend his tube feeds once a week. I feel like my at home time has become a never-ending blending marathon, and in two weeks we add 5 more foods to the mix! One of Tucker’s 5 foods is Dad’s white beans. They are very flavorful, they are full of nutrition and calories, so they are a hit. We were out of beans, so I asked Dad for more. Well, he only knows how to cook one way-in a huge pot, making enough to feed a whole army of Tuckers. No kidding, he cooked on Monday, and I had a huge bowl of beans to blend up and put away. At just 2-4 ounces per serving, we now have at least a month’s worth in the freezer :)
I forgot to post about Tucker’s trip to the dentist, this was the day before Jennifer came. Tucker loves going anywhere, just as long as he gets out of the house ;) So the weekend before the dentist appointment, I had told him that he was going to the dentist that week, and the dentist would clean his teeth and count them. On that Saturday Tucker was so bored, despite all of the new Christmas toys and videos he has, so he was trying everything: “go to nana’s!” “ go to sissy and pops!” “go to Paw Paw Eds!” “go to da dentist!” I asked him, “really??? Now that is just pathetic!” hahaha
So on that next Thursday morning, he made it to the dentist. He was SO well behaved, and almost seemed happy to be there. I recently had my own dental check-up, and I admit that I hate it. I don’t like having someone else messing with my teeth. Well, Tucker was fine, he laid down and watched the hygienist’s every move; he even held her hand to “help” her. The dentist said his teeth look great, they took Xrays, and he had no cavities. The XRays kind of scared me, as his permanent teeth look huge…they are definitely going to be crowded in his little mouth and need some orthodontics to help that situation.
I am not usually sad about Tucker passing good milestones. I am not one of those moms who is sad that their child is growing up too quickly, as Tucker has always taken his own slow pace getting to each developmental level. Kids grow up, that is what they are supposed to do if we are lucky. Well, at the appointment the dentist mentioned how Tucker will be losing teeth soon and that is okay. I asked how that could possibly be ok?? He said that Tucker will be 6 in May, and that is the age kids start losing teeth. I just stared at him like he was crazy…surely, my baby is not old enough to lose his teeth?? He hasn’t even used them yet! Lol My mom came to pick Tucker up to bring him to school so that I could get to work. She laughed at me and told me that, yes, Tucker was old enough to lose his teeth when he turns 6. Well at least we have a few months until then!
Tucker loves Jason Aldean, who is a popular Country Music singer. Once of his favorite JA songs is “Johnny Cash.” This song sounds nothing like any Johnny Cash songs I have heard, it is just a fun song with a good beat. Well, Tucker also likes Adele, so mom plays the Adele CD in her car while they wait for the bus in the mornings. The other day, for the first time, Tucker said “take out Dell! Turn on Johnny Cash!” lol, Mom laughed so hard at him and of course obeyed. Now Johnny Cash is the only song playing in the mornings, Tucker even plays the drums on the dashboard like Uncle Chris….although I hope Uncle Chris has a little more rhythm!
We went last Saturday to visit my parents and to see Jessica. We couldn’t find Christmas bear at the moment, so Black Bear came along with us. Tucker had to put Black Bear for a “map” in Jessica’s bed, and every 5 minutes he had to check on him….as if he wasn’t going to listen to Tucker and he was going to sneak out of bed. At one point he said “Poppy, come with me!” Well, you don’t ignore that kind of request so dad went. Dad said they had to check on the bear, fix his blanket, then Tucker said “Beah is seepin’ he is so tiyad.” Absolute cuteness!! :)
Chris, Tucker, and I have been going through a bit of rough times lately, as Chris works 7 days a week, 10 hour days, with 1.5 hours of commuting each way. So Chris is gone for work before we wake up in the morning, and he gets home around 6 or 630 at night. We haven’t had much family time, and one thing about Tucker is that he likes his whole family together. The first weekend that Chris worked, Jennifer was with us for therapy, so we were busy. Then Chris was off (he works every other weekend), and that was nice. Last weekend, Tucker and I knocked many tasks off the to-do list, we were very productive. Tucker loves running errands and going to stores, as he gets prizes for behaving. Last Saturday he got Cheetos and Reese's, he was thrilled.
Sunday was a different story. He woke up at 6am asking to “go to chuch.” He loves mass, well, he loves the music at mass and getting to walk up the aisle when I go to Communion. He is fairly bored with the rest of it. When he was younger I just left him home so that I could go to mass, but he is almost 6, and we need to give him time to get used to the routine of mass. He knows that if he is good, he gets to go to Paw Paw Ed’s house after. Well this Sunday, he was good up until we all said the Our Father. Then he started demanding to go anywhere…..loudly…..”go to Paw Paw House!” “go ride in the truck!” (we had the truck bc Chris took my car to work) “its time to eat!” “go to the potty!” “go to the baby room!” He calls the “cry room” the baby room…it is a soundproof room with a big window. You can take your crying baby there and still see and hear the mass, then the hope is that they calm down and you can come back to the main church. I try to use it as a punish room, as in, if you are bad enough to go in the cry room, you are in big trouble. The problem is, Tucker loves babies and therefore the baby room. So it’s not really a punishment to be stuck in there :/
I couldn’t get him to stop yelling, so off we went to the baby room. When we got in there, I told him to calm down, and that his yelling meant he wasn’t riding home in the truck, but he had to ride home in Nana’s car. He was SO angry, he started kicking and screaming and threw himself on the ground….he was being much louder than any actual babies! The remaining 10 minutes of mass was horrible….all I wanted to do was pick him up and run out of there, but there are two problems with that: 1. He is now huge, and I am not actually able to pick him up and/or physically force him to do much… and 2. That would have given him EXACTLY what he wanted…to get out of church. I would have been reinforcing the bad behavior by giving him what he wanted in the first place. So I tried to do what we usually do, which is let the fit play out until he got over it….pretty embarrassing!!
Right when mass ended, I took him into the bathroom instead of fighting the crowd to get outside. I told him I was so angry, and that he was too big to act like that. When we got outside, Mom and Gina had already left….I forgot to tell them about Tucker’s punishment….so he thought he got to ride in the truck. I called Gina, and asked them to please come back and get Tucker. They drove up to us, and I put Tucker in his carseat in their car. His face fell, he was so sad. I told him that I’d ride in the truck, and I’d meet him at our house in a minute. Well, in the short ride from the church to our house Tucker kicked and screamed and broke the cupholder in the car :/
Once we were home he was in a better mood. I told him if he calmed down he could ride in the truck and go to Paw Paw Ed’s house. He straightened up and we enjoyed a visit at Paw Paw and Maw Maw’s. Tucker played while the adults visited, then Gina and I took him outside to swing and listen to her IPod. He was so very happy, complete opposite of that morning.
In two days, we will have the Second Annual Fishing for Tucker Bass Fishing Tournament. You can check out fishingfortucker.com for details. Last year was amazing, and this year our family and the local community are making it bigger and better. Raffle tickets for several great items ($500 Visa gift card, 42” TV, $1000 to Wall Décor and More, Kindle Ereader, and 2 custom made wooden ice chests-one LSU and one Saints) are available, and the tickets have been selling like crazy. There will be jambalaya, baked goods, t-shirts, coozies, cokes, and beer for sale. There will be bands playing from 10am-2pm, then the weigh-in and all of the door prizes start at 3. A local advertising company designed and donated 5 billboards, so Tucker’s face is all over town, just like last year. We are amazed at how far Tucker has come since last year’s tournament, and that is because of how much the fundraiser was able to help with Tucker’s care and services. We are so blessed!!
As Tucker eats more, we obviously run out of food sooner. This means that I am blending and freezing at least one of his five foods every night. Plus I still blend his tube feeds once a week. I feel like my at home time has become a never-ending blending marathon, and in two weeks we add 5 more foods to the mix! One of Tucker’s 5 foods is Dad’s white beans. They are very flavorful, they are full of nutrition and calories, so they are a hit. We were out of beans, so I asked Dad for more. Well, he only knows how to cook one way-in a huge pot, making enough to feed a whole army of Tuckers. No kidding, he cooked on Monday, and I had a huge bowl of beans to blend up and put away. At just 2-4 ounces per serving, we now have at least a month’s worth in the freezer :)
I forgot to post about Tucker’s trip to the dentist, this was the day before Jennifer came. Tucker loves going anywhere, just as long as he gets out of the house ;) So the weekend before the dentist appointment, I had told him that he was going to the dentist that week, and the dentist would clean his teeth and count them. On that Saturday Tucker was so bored, despite all of the new Christmas toys and videos he has, so he was trying everything: “go to nana’s!” “ go to sissy and pops!” “go to Paw Paw Eds!” “go to da dentist!” I asked him, “really??? Now that is just pathetic!” hahaha
So on that next Thursday morning, he made it to the dentist. He was SO well behaved, and almost seemed happy to be there. I recently had my own dental check-up, and I admit that I hate it. I don’t like having someone else messing with my teeth. Well, Tucker was fine, he laid down and watched the hygienist’s every move; he even held her hand to “help” her. The dentist said his teeth look great, they took Xrays, and he had no cavities. The XRays kind of scared me, as his permanent teeth look huge…they are definitely going to be crowded in his little mouth and need some orthodontics to help that situation.
I am not usually sad about Tucker passing good milestones. I am not one of those moms who is sad that their child is growing up too quickly, as Tucker has always taken his own slow pace getting to each developmental level. Kids grow up, that is what they are supposed to do if we are lucky. Well, at the appointment the dentist mentioned how Tucker will be losing teeth soon and that is okay. I asked how that could possibly be ok?? He said that Tucker will be 6 in May, and that is the age kids start losing teeth. I just stared at him like he was crazy…surely, my baby is not old enough to lose his teeth?? He hasn’t even used them yet! Lol My mom came to pick Tucker up to bring him to school so that I could get to work. She laughed at me and told me that, yes, Tucker was old enough to lose his teeth when he turns 6. Well at least we have a few months until then!
Tucker loves Jason Aldean, who is a popular Country Music singer. Once of his favorite JA songs is “Johnny Cash.” This song sounds nothing like any Johnny Cash songs I have heard, it is just a fun song with a good beat. Well, Tucker also likes Adele, so mom plays the Adele CD in her car while they wait for the bus in the mornings. The other day, for the first time, Tucker said “take out Dell! Turn on Johnny Cash!” lol, Mom laughed so hard at him and of course obeyed. Now Johnny Cash is the only song playing in the mornings, Tucker even plays the drums on the dashboard like Uncle Chris….although I hope Uncle Chris has a little more rhythm!
We went last Saturday to visit my parents and to see Jessica. We couldn’t find Christmas bear at the moment, so Black Bear came along with us. Tucker had to put Black Bear for a “map” in Jessica’s bed, and every 5 minutes he had to check on him….as if he wasn’t going to listen to Tucker and he was going to sneak out of bed. At one point he said “Poppy, come with me!” Well, you don’t ignore that kind of request so dad went. Dad said they had to check on the bear, fix his blanket, then Tucker said “Beah is seepin’ he is so tiyad.” Absolute cuteness!! :)
Chris, Tucker, and I have been going through a bit of rough times lately, as Chris works 7 days a week, 10 hour days, with 1.5 hours of commuting each way. So Chris is gone for work before we wake up in the morning, and he gets home around 6 or 630 at night. We haven’t had much family time, and one thing about Tucker is that he likes his whole family together. The first weekend that Chris worked, Jennifer was with us for therapy, so we were busy. Then Chris was off (he works every other weekend), and that was nice. Last weekend, Tucker and I knocked many tasks off the to-do list, we were very productive. Tucker loves running errands and going to stores, as he gets prizes for behaving. Last Saturday he got Cheetos and Reese's, he was thrilled.
Sunday was a different story. He woke up at 6am asking to “go to chuch.” He loves mass, well, he loves the music at mass and getting to walk up the aisle when I go to Communion. He is fairly bored with the rest of it. When he was younger I just left him home so that I could go to mass, but he is almost 6, and we need to give him time to get used to the routine of mass. He knows that if he is good, he gets to go to Paw Paw Ed’s house after. Well this Sunday, he was good up until we all said the Our Father. Then he started demanding to go anywhere…..loudly…..”go to Paw Paw House!” “go ride in the truck!” (we had the truck bc Chris took my car to work) “its time to eat!” “go to the potty!” “go to the baby room!” He calls the “cry room” the baby room…it is a soundproof room with a big window. You can take your crying baby there and still see and hear the mass, then the hope is that they calm down and you can come back to the main church. I try to use it as a punish room, as in, if you are bad enough to go in the cry room, you are in big trouble. The problem is, Tucker loves babies and therefore the baby room. So it’s not really a punishment to be stuck in there :/
I couldn’t get him to stop yelling, so off we went to the baby room. When we got in there, I told him to calm down, and that his yelling meant he wasn’t riding home in the truck, but he had to ride home in Nana’s car. He was SO angry, he started kicking and screaming and threw himself on the ground….he was being much louder than any actual babies! The remaining 10 minutes of mass was horrible….all I wanted to do was pick him up and run out of there, but there are two problems with that: 1. He is now huge, and I am not actually able to pick him up and/or physically force him to do much… and 2. That would have given him EXACTLY what he wanted…to get out of church. I would have been reinforcing the bad behavior by giving him what he wanted in the first place. So I tried to do what we usually do, which is let the fit play out until he got over it….pretty embarrassing!!
Right when mass ended, I took him into the bathroom instead of fighting the crowd to get outside. I told him I was so angry, and that he was too big to act like that. When we got outside, Mom and Gina had already left….I forgot to tell them about Tucker’s punishment….so he thought he got to ride in the truck. I called Gina, and asked them to please come back and get Tucker. They drove up to us, and I put Tucker in his carseat in their car. His face fell, he was so sad. I told him that I’d ride in the truck, and I’d meet him at our house in a minute. Well, in the short ride from the church to our house Tucker kicked and screamed and broke the cupholder in the car :/
Once we were home he was in a better mood. I told him if he calmed down he could ride in the truck and go to Paw Paw Ed’s house. He straightened up and we enjoyed a visit at Paw Paw and Maw Maw’s. Tucker played while the adults visited, then Gina and I took him outside to swing and listen to her IPod. He was so very happy, complete opposite of that morning.
In two days, we will have the Second Annual Fishing for Tucker Bass Fishing Tournament. You can check out fishingfortucker.com for details. Last year was amazing, and this year our family and the local community are making it bigger and better. Raffle tickets for several great items ($500 Visa gift card, 42” TV, $1000 to Wall Décor and More, Kindle Ereader, and 2 custom made wooden ice chests-one LSU and one Saints) are available, and the tickets have been selling like crazy. There will be jambalaya, baked goods, t-shirts, coozies, cokes, and beer for sale. There will be bands playing from 10am-2pm, then the weigh-in and all of the door prizes start at 3. A local advertising company designed and donated 5 billboards, so Tucker’s face is all over town, just like last year. We are amazed at how far Tucker has come since last year’s tournament, and that is because of how much the fundraiser was able to help with Tucker’s care and services. We are so blessed!!
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